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The Power of Gratitude (in an unhappy world)

9:29 am by Seeking Joyful Simplicity 2 Comments

The Power of Gratitude (in an unhappy world)

How to Use Gratitude to Be Happier

It can be hard to find peace and contentment in our current culture. The news is filled with violence and discord. Judgement, name-calling, and anger are a common thread in social media. And although social media and the internet are great ways to bring us together, they can also cause us to feel inadequate when we compare ourselves to others who seem so much happier, healthier, wealthier, and wise.

So often we focus on what is wrong in our lives, we forget to notice all that is right.

“If the only prayer you say in your entire life is thank you, that will be enough.” ~ Eckhart Tolle

How do we do we practice gratitude, and more importantly, how do we feel gratitude - when our world seems to be falling apart around us? How do we find gratitude when we are in pain, angry, overwhelmed, or just plain feeling miserable?

Focusing on the good in our lives, even the small things, causes a powerful mental shift. But did you know that thoughts of gratitude also affects us in a chemical way? Thinking of the many blessings in our life can alter our brain chemistry by causing a surge in the ‘feel-good’ neurotransmitters, and the more we practice gratitude, the stronger and longer-lasting the positive effects.

But how do we practice gratitude, and more importantly, how do we feel gratitude – when our world seems to be falling apart around us? How do we find gratitude when we are in pain, angry, overwhelmed, or just plain feeling miserable?

Excerpt from Oprah Winfrey’s The Wisdom of Sundays, Life-Changing Insights from Super Soul Conversations:

“I know it’s not easy to be grateful all the time, but I’ve learned that it’s when you feel the least thankful that you are most in need of what gratitude can give you: perspective.

It was Maya Angelou who taught me what she believed to be the true purpose of giving thanks. After I called her years ago, upset and in tears over what I thought someone had done to me, she stopped me mid-sob and said, ‘Stop your crying right now, and say thank you.’

I was confused and asked, ‘Why?’

‘Because,’ she said in that deep, wise, Maya Angelou voice, ‘you know God put a rainbow in every cloud. The rainbow is coming. Say thank you even though you can’t see the rainbow. It’s already there.”

How to Practice Gratitude

  • Start small. Find ONE THING you are grateful for, and then find another.
  • Start practicing gratitude by setting aside a devoted time each day to write five new things (or more) that you are grateful for.
  • Dedicate a few minutes each day to write down five new things you are grateful for – these can be small things like the sound of birds singing outside the window, or a delicious meal you enjoyed.
  • Make gratitude a practice when you are struggling with anxiety or overwhelm – when you wake in the night and your mind  won’t stop and you feel your anxiety rising – STOP and remember your gratitude.
  • Practice gratitude before you slide out of bed each morning.

How to Feel Gratitude

Our culture is hyper-focused on the negative – unfortunately, bad news is what grabs our attention and it’s what sells.

If we aren’t careful, after awhile our brains become trained to look for the negative (it’s a survival instinct.) But practicing gratitude, we start to see more of the good all around us.

Practicing gratitude affects us both physically and emotionally, and only takes a few moments. 

Don’t rush it; gratitude works best if we feel the emotion of gratefulness for the blessings in our life, big and small. 

I encourage you to work with the practice of gratitude. 

So, set your intention, make time, and start feeling the power of daily gratitude.

With affection
~ Michelle

P.S. ~ I’d love to know, have you tried practicing gratitude? How did you feel?

Designing a Life You Love

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  1. DM says

    at 6:48 am

    I absolutely practice the habit of gratitude. My experience is, it is like a muscle. The more you do it, the stronger and more natural it becomes a part of my every day life. For me, it really does start with the small things (which are really not small)…ie. When the morning light comes through the blinds in our bedroom, on those mornings when there is a red hue in the sky, it puts red shadows on the wardrobe doors. Beautiful designs, that move ever so quickly as the sun rises. To me, they are a simple quiet gift from God. Recently, another blogger wrote something called Rose, Thorn, Bud,..an activity that we’ve begun to do in our house…When the family is sitting around the dinner table, everybody gets’ to share three things from their day ..Rose = highlight, Thorn= low light, Bud..something that hasn’t happened yet, but they are looking forward to…I am thankful for coming across that activity, AND I am thankful for the many, many things, big and small sprinkled throughout our days to be thankful for, if we only have eyes and hears to see and hear them. Take care Michelle, DM

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    • Seeking Joyful Simplicity says

      at 5:55 pm

      Thank you for sharing this DM. There is so much beauty, peace, and contentment in the small moments of life. Our culture seems to be hyper-focused on the BIG events. But I agree it’s the every day moments that bring us closer to God (Spirit).

      And I really like the idea of Rose, Thorn, Bud. It’s a nice way to acknowledge both the positive, and the negatives that make up a life.
      Be well.

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